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Wong Kar Wai’s“In the
Mood for
Love”

Wong Kar Wai’s 2000 masterwork has influenced filmmakers ranging from Barry Jenkins to Sofia Coppola—and innumerable teens on TikTok.

There is a particular aesthetic floating abroad in the world. You could call it an atmosphere, a vibe, or just an essence of style. It’s made up of a collection of ingredients: humid alleyways in dense cities, neon lights cutting through darkness, quietly flashy fashion, nostalgic music, tragic romanticism, and the smoke of many, many cigarettes. It evokes glamour with a streak of grittiness, and the feeling of being adrift. It partakes of Golden Age Hollywood but is more international, modern, and self-aware.

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You can spot it across popular culture: it informed one of the most distinctive settings in the multiverse of “Everything Everywhere All at Once

and, before that, Barry Jenkins’s “Moonlight,” Sofia Coppola’s “Lost in Translation,” and Joe Barton’s ambitious crime series “Giri/Haji.”

It also provided interior-design inspiration for the lambent Brooklyn bar Mood Ring, a reference point for Marc Jacobs’s Heaven brand, and the template for hundreds of thousands of selfies, Instagram posts, and TikTok videos in which young people cast their own lives in its melodramatic sensibility.

The source of this style is the Hong Kong auteur Wong Kar Wai—specifically, his masterwork “In the Mood for Love,” released in 2000. As a Mark Rothko color-field painting was to the fifties, “In the Mood for Love” may be to the early two-thousands: an art work emblematic of the era that encodes a universal, ambivalent feeling. The film is a ninety-minute mood piece in which a barely spoken plot is less important than the weaving together of fashion, music, color, light, and form—a feat cinema can achieve better than any other medium.

Set in British Hong Kong, in 1962, it follows Chow Mo-wan (Tony Leung), a newspaper journalist, and Su Li-zhen (Maggie Cheung), a secretary at an import-export office.

The pair live in adjacent apartments in a crowded building, where they gradually realize that their respective spouses are having an affair and attempt to figure out how it happened, only to become entangled themselves. Wong has described the film as “two people dancing together slowly.”

“In the Mood for Love” is the kind of singular art work that stands in as a shorthand for one’s personal taste. If you know, you know. Wong created a cocktail of French New Wave filmmaking, American hardboiled mystery, Chinese modernist literature, and the geopolitics of his own Hong Kong-via-Shanghai upbringing, then channelled those disparate influences into the mundane, domestic story of two not-quite-lovers. The combination is both unprecedented and somehow familiar upon watching, like a forgotten memory. The clarity of vision leaves an indelible mark on the viewer, and the film’s suitability for selfies makes sense; one wants to inhabit it, to take the places of its beautiful protagonists. But I first encountered “In the Mood for Love” as a teen-ager in the least glamorous of circumstances: a glaringly lit Blockbuster in suburban Connecticut in 2002, not long after it was released in the United States. Drawn in by its evocative title and cover on the foreign-films shelf, I snuck it into a pile of family rentals and watched it at home alone one night, entranced. I didn’t know what an “art film” was, but I aspired to the greater depth of feeling it seemed to promise.

Over countless rewatches in the decades since, I came to realize that my younger self hadn’t grasped the full picture. What makes the film enduring is not so much the romance as the shadow that lies behind it.

A woman holds a glass
Poster for “In the Mood for Love.” Photograph courtesy Janus Films

Perhaps the aesthetic of “In the Mood for Love” is so immersive because it is so personal. In 1963, with the Cultural Revolution looming, Wong’s family left his native Shanghai for Hong Kong. There, he grew up in an international, polyglot milieu of British colonialists, Cantonese-speaking locals, and immigrants from across Asia. The language barrier isolated Wong from other children—he was five years old when they arrived, and spoke neither English nor Cantonese—and his youth was defined by moviegoing with his mother. The ritual instilled a love of cinema and fluency in its tropes. By the late eighties, he was making his own films—and amassing a cast of collaborators that continued through “In the Mood for Love,” including Cheung, Leung, and the Australian cinematographer Christopher Doyle, who helped form his frenetic yet elegant visual style.

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Stills from Wong’s “Chungking Express,” 1994. Photographs courtesy Janus Films
A seated woman and man bathed in red light
Two figures run on a dark surface
A man and a woman with their lips close together
Stills from Wong’s “Days of Being Wild,” 1990. Photographs courtesy Janus Films

Wong’s movies offered a departure from the self-serious grandeur of such Chinese directors as Zhang Yimou and Chen Kaige, who had begun to carve out international reputations with their epic dramas. He also cleared a path for more casual, intimate, and atmospheric directors after him, including Jia Zhangke, whose protagonists are similarly lost in the churn of China’s transformation. Wong punctured the dominant historical nostalgia with Hitchcockian psychological suspense and a Godard-esque embrace of youth culture and improvisation. (The apartment complex from “In the Mood for Love,” in particular, owes a debt to the architectural claustrophobia of “Rear Window.”) That is not to say he ignored predecessors from closer to home. One source for “In the Mood for Love” is the Chinese masterpiece “Spring in a Small Town”—an austere 1948 film by Fei Mu, little known in the West—which also circles around straying lovers trapped in their circumstances, with a looping narrative and intimate cinematography. Wong’s magic touch is making everything onscreen feel new, as if it is happening for the first time, no matter when it is set.

A woman rests her head on a man's shoulder
A man putting his arm around a woman
Still from “Spring in a Small Town.” Photograph from Alamy
A woman seen through a window
A party seen through a window
Still from “Rear Window,” 1954.

The instantly recognizable soundtrack of “In the Mood for Love” is also rooted in Wong’s history. Many of the songs are artifacts from mid-century Hong Kong. The city’s night-club-music industry was dominated by Filipinos who often sang in Spanish—hence Wong’s otherwise jarring inclusion of Nat King Cole singing Spanish-language standards like “Quizas, Quizas, Quizas” from a 1958 album. Cole’s butchered Anglophone pronunciation of Spanish gives the songs an odd, unforgettable poignancy: love as a mistranslation. The director adopted a lilting, mournful string arrangement from the 1991 Japanese film “Yumeji” to act as a chorus or even another character; it appears nine separate times as Chow and Su negotiate their relationship. Wong has said that the music “is a poem itself.”

For all its looseness, “In the Mood for Love” was an elaborate production. It lasted fifteen months, evolving from a short sketch about food into an intimate drama. Investors dropped out and had to be replaced during the Asian financial crisis of 1997. Doyle moved on to another project when shooting went over schedule; he was replaced by Mark Lee Ping-bing, whose more placid style slowed the film’s pace. “It was supposed to be a quick lunch, and then it became a big feast,” Wong said.

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The director Wong Kar Wai and the cinematographer Christopher Doyle on set, 2000. Photograph from Miramax / Everett

The construction of “In the Mood for Love” is symphonic. Each of its elements—image, sound, dialogue—contributes to a greater, cohesive whole.

Even the actors are just one part of the over-all collage, navigating spaces and tableaux of objects that feel laden with symbolism in the manner of a Magritte still-life.

Chow and Su are constantly trying to reach their spouses and each other through heavy wired telephones, which quickly become a conduit for miscommunication and deception. Su’s boss instructs her to lie about his whereabouts on calls from both his wife and his mistress.

The camera often pans to the obdurate face of an office clock, showing time frozen but also inexorably passing—the burning fuse of Chow and Su’s relationship.

Cigarettes, too, recur. When Chow lights one, the smoke tendrils swirl upward like the churning of his mind, impossible to put into words.

The physical world seems to intrude on the main characters and entrap them. Throughout, walls, doors, windows, and mirrors split the frame—and hide Chow and Su’s spouses, whose faces are never seen.

In one particularly complex shot, we see Su entering through her office door, employees working behind a window, and her boss behind another glass partition.

Each figure is enclosed in their own box of space. The effect is deliberately voyeuristic. “We always want to keep the audience as one of the neighbors,” Wong said.

As Su’s landlady observes, Chow and Su don’t hide their gossip-inducing interactions perfectly; there is a hint of exhibitionism in their performance.

In fact, who could fail to notice these two heartbreakers? The protagonists’ wardrobes, too, are unignorable. Su’s succession of qipao, sheathlike traditional Chinese dresses, have become famous for their sheer ostentation, each pattern more striking than the last. But Chow’s suits and rumpled white-collared shirts are just as remarkable for their sprezzatura. The almost comical extremity of the fashion is a hint that something else is going on beneath the aestheticized surface.

Two women talkingTwo women talking
A man in a suit looking downA man in a suit looking down
A woman in a bright green dressA woman in a bright green dress
A man rests after eatingA man rests after eating
A woman smilingA woman smiling
A man in a white collared shirtA man in a white collared shirt
A woman looking down in a smoky roomA woman looking down in a smoky room
A man in a suit and a woman’s silhouetteA man in a suit and a woman’s silhouette

At first, I would rewatch “In the Mood for Love” just to luxuriate in its ambience: the vibe is compelling enough. But my reading of the film’s details changed as I got older. I returned to it in the giddy swing of crushes and then in the hungover aftermath of breakups—it serves equally well for both—including an almost-relationship that bore some resemblance to Wong’s story. With experience, an edge of irony crept into my interpretation. It is the belief of a teen-ager that love is wholly grand and tragic, that the barrier to happiness is the circumstance keeping fated lovers apart. If only Chow and Su could meet outside their deceitful partners and watchful neighbors! But we have a tendency to cause our own problems in love, sometimes by accident and sometimes out of a subconscious desire for the problem itself. In the course of the film, Chow and Su chase and miss each other so frequently that the pursuit becomes an existential joke. Su declines to flee with Chow to Singapore, then appears there, steals into his apartment (a Wong Kar Wai trope), and calls him at his office, only to hang up without a word. Chow returns to the building where they met but doesn’t inquire deeply enough to learn that Su has moved back in. Rather than seeking to dispel ambiguity, they embrace it.

A man stands under a street light
A woman stands under a street light
A man looks out a window
A woman stands and holds a glass
A woman talks to a man at the end of a hallway
A man walks down a hallway

Revisiting the film in 2023, one could diagnose the pair with “main-character syndrome,” Internet slang for someone acting like they’re the star of the movie of their life. Initially, the protagonists’ conduct seems apt—then side characters call attention to their dramatic tendencies. At one point, a neighbor observes the absurd intricacy of Su’s qipao outfits: “She dresses up like that to go out for noodles?”

Chow’s dreamy romanticism is also tempered by his friend Ah Ping, an avuncular deadbeat whose suggested cure for lovesickness is to go to a brothel. When Chow monologues about keeping secrets by whispering them into trees, Ah Ping is perplexed: “I’m just an average guy. I don’t have secrets like you. You bottle things up!”

These scenes cast the would-be couple in a new light, not as victims of circumstance but as players in their own game. The film’s impossible sumptuousness is meant to be just that—impossible. Wishing that the two of them ended up together means missing the poetry of the dance.

Shorn somewhat of its subtlety and often not directly citing its source, the “In the Mood for Love” aesthetic is easily spotted online across platforms like Tumblr, Instagram, and TikTok. Users collect screenshots of Maggie Cheung as Su in her resplendent dresses and share GIFs of the pair crossing on the stairs of the noodle shop they frequent. Such is the film’s strength that any single image is synecdochic for its atmosphere. As one meme-like TikTok puts it, above a clip of Chow smoking and grimacing, “bro you’re not a heartbroken journalist in 60s Hong Kong.” The video has more than three hundred thousand likes; one commenter responded, “actually i am.” The implication is that “In the Mood for Love” makes the viewer feel like she could be Chow—the environment of mid-century Hong Kong might be wholly unfamiliar, but the emotion is utterly recognizable.

Some fans take the identification further, using our era’s convenient smartphone cameras and video-editing apps to cast themselves in the world of the film. TikTok is home to a showcase of Wong Kar Wai replicas and tutorials for how to achieve the same effect, whether in flash-heavy restaurant selfies or elaborate cinematic videos. One clip shows its creator, Mike Quyen, in a heavy camel-hair coat, slim black suit, and pristine white shirt as he smokes, makes a call in a telephone booth, and hunches over a desk—a perfect avatar of Tony Leung, albeit removed from any larger plot. The movie’s slow panning shots, acidic color grading, and aggressive chiaroscuro form an interactive filter that anyone can adopt.

Another commandment of TikTok culture is to “romanticize your life”: shoot the best parts of reality as a shareable mood board and saturate the ordinary with as much feeling as possible. Of course, that’s what “In the Mood for Love” already did. Adopting the style allows fans, especially younger ones, to elevate their own existence.

Hence my attraction to “In the Mood for Love” as a suburban teen-ager: I wanted to be the main character in my own life, too. The film illustrated my concept of adulthood, a then far-off realm.

I still think of Chow every time I smoke a cigarette. But now I see the movie more as a document of midlife crisis, of the manifold paths people can take together and apart. The characters are flawed and confused.

They may not make the choices that lead them to happiness. But who’s to say that happiness lies in clarity instead of ambiguity? Life is not made up of cleanly drawn narratives, and the film’s recognition of that fact—and of the attendant pleasures—may be what makes it great.

In its final minutes, Chow makes good on his earlier monologue and whispers unheard secrets into a hole in the stones of Angkor’s ruins in Cambodia.

Maybe he’s saying goodbye to the relationship with Su or leaving that part of himself behind, even as he continues to preserve it. In Wong’s world, taking yourself too seriously is a mistake, but it is an enjoyable one. ♦

Collage images: “Everything Everywhere All at Once” (A24, 2022). “Giri/Haji” (Netflix, BBC Two, 2019). “Lost in Translation” (Focus Features, 2003). “Moonlight” (A24, 2016). c0nsolecowboy / TikTok. Stills from “In the Mood for Love” | Photographs courtesy Block 2 Distribution Ltd. Looks from the collection Heaven by Marc Jacobs | Photographs courtesy Marc Jacobs. The bar at Mood Ring I Photograph by Sara Edwards. Audio: “Quizas, Quizas, Quizas,” by Nat King Cole (Capitol); “Yumeji’s Theme,” by Shigeru Umebayashi (Universal Music).